Relationship Group Therapy for Gay Men
Better Relationships.
Less Drama.
You made it here, so you’re likely a gay man who works hard on himself and has made a lot of progress—yet something still isn’t right.
You probably don’t know exactly what’s keeping you stuck. Maybe you’ve hit a plateau in individual therapy. And like most people in your position, you also won’t stop until you find out why.

I get it. Learning relationship skills in a quiet therapy room can make sense. But mastering them out in the wild west of gay dating, friendships, and professional life is a far greater challenge. Regardless, you refuse to settle.
Group therapy for gay men can help.
THE CHALLENGE
Life as a Gay Man is Still Hard
You're not bad at relationships. But they're still not working as well as you'd like—especially with other gay men.
Do any of these sound familiar?
You're already in a relationship but still feel lonely.
Your very first thought at social events is, I wonder when this thing ends.
Staying home on the weekend is usually more appealing to you than going out . . . anywhere.
You often feel out of place when you're around other gay men.
You're still secretly in love with your ex—years after the breakup.
You replay every conversation in your head to figure out what you should have said instead of what you did say.
If you’ve gone as far as you can in individual therapy, but it's not far enough, finding a radically different approach to relationship therapy is crucial.
THE TRANSFORMATION
A Radically Different Approach
The Benefits of Group Therapy
Let’s be completely honest: Sometimes we all fantasize that life would be a heck of a lot easier if we didn’t have to deal with . . . well . . . other people. But that’s just not how relationships work.
This unique online group therapy is designed to help gay men build greater confidence in social settings and discover a felt sense of comfort and ease they can use when interacting with gay men and others outside the group.
It's more than the typical peer-support or counseling group. Instead, it offers the unique benefits of Yalom group therapy—weekly professional guidance, support, and accountability—customized for a select group of gay men.
It’s not "magic," as some of my clients have called their group experience. But the powerful changes group therapy for gay men often sparks in relationships can seem magical.
Regardless of what slowed your roll, you don’t have to stay stuck—you also don’t have to settle.
THE GUIDE
I'm Phil Lewis.
I Know How to Help.
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I know from personal and clinical experience how challenging it can be to navigate life as a gay man.
I’m a Certified Group Psychotherapist (CGP) and relationship therapist in Beverly Hills and Los Angeles. For years, I’ve seen the group process transform the way gay men navigate their relationships—I’d like to show how it could do the same for you.
I can’t predict how this online group therapy for gay men might help you. But I can say what I’ve seen in my practice is remarkable. It’s rarely easy, but for those willing to invest in themselves, the payoff can be rich.
THE PLAN
Relief Is Just Three Simple Steps Away
*Group is strictly limited to 8 Members. Call for availability.
Pick a time for a free 15-minute phone consult. No pressure. Just a brief call to see if you might benefit from group therapy.
We explore whether this group therapy for gay men is the right fit for you. I provide professional support when you join.
Let the group process help you get unstuck so you can continue growing in your relationships.
Imagine the Freedom
Picture what it would be like to feel genuinely excited about going out—whether you’re meeting new friends, going on a first date, or heading out for date night with your partner.
Imagine socializing with an ease and comfort that frees you to actually enjoy the people you’re with, regardless of anyone’s sexual orientation.
Envision the deep sense of relief of calmly moving on to new conversations, free of the exhausting instant replay in your head.
Why Settle Now?
Look, nobody’s life is perfect. But you’ve worked really hard to get where you are.
You deserve more. There, I said it!
Of course, you can accept things just as they are. That’s a legitimate choice. I mean it.
But if you’ve read this far, you probably already know the sobering truth: if you keep doing the same thing, you’ll most likely keep getting the same result—and possibly something worse. Why risk the backslide?
Group Basics
Group membership is strictly limited. Call for availability.
Group Format
Secure Online Meeting
Members
Strictly Limited to 8 Gay Men (CA Residents Only)
Schedule
Wednesdays
7:00pm – 8:15pm
Membership Fee
$65 Weekly Membership
I’m here when you’re ready.
The first step is to schedule a free 15-minute call. There’s no commitment. This is simply an opportunity to explore if Beverly Hills group therapy for gay men is right for you and your relationships.

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